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Letting Go Of A Toxic Relationship

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Have you ever felt that the whole life is against you? Now, you realized that you are stuck in a toxic relationship and you feel angry and frustrated about what to do. Life is so unfair… All I Ever Wanted Was For Him To Love Me

That’s right. You feel like a victim of your life choices. I am sure that you are looking for a solution to get out of this confusing, hurtful situation.

You feel like a victim in your painful life. So, you must have a history of painful memories, beliefs, and emotions. You carry them all your life. Unfortunately, you are unaware of them as they stay on a deep unconscious level of your mind. This is haunting your mind and it is draining your life force energy. You cannot function and this makes you make more bad relationship choices as well.

Your mind works like a computer. It stores all data from your life. That is why, this bad, toxic data works like a parasitic virus in your mind. People claim that we need to wait a period of time to let go of all pain. Can you persuade computer virus to go away if you are pleasing enough?! I don’t think so.

You have this in your system. It gives you a message about who you are, where you come from and how your life should look like. This parasite can hijack your mind and triggers you to feel and behave in a specified way. That’s why you may attract toxic relationships as you, your mother and grandmother did it before.

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Can you see it now? You may realize that you hold those issues. Then, your current situation is not promising and you feel and think of yourself as a victim! It is pathetic and far away from being successful and happy, right?

People tend to believe that toxic situations teach us something. We learn how to avoid making the same mistakes again. We hear from others “please, make better relationship choice next time”. They persuade you to believe in the same statement and you accepted it. Now, you try to control the situation to control your life.

You try to change the outside world but the inside stay untouched. It still affects you how you think about yourself and what kind of relationship choices you make and how people treat you.

You decide when you are ready to take a challenge and face your painful life history. To the contrary, you may keep denying that your painful background never happened. Those problems will be there with you and they will hijack your present and future relationships.

Remember that you can stop a victim cycle.

My name is Iga and I help people to let go of their toxic relationships so they can take their lives back and start living a normal, healthy life. So if I have inspired you to learn more about a powerful coaching process that can help you become fully conscious and in charge of your mind and life kindly request a free introductory Skype consultation that will begin to change your life.

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All I Ever Wanted Was For Him To Love Me

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You are struggling with your current relationship. You discovered an affair. Many negative feelings of betrayal, sadness and disappointed haunted your heart. It makes your soul broken as this person was very special in your life.

That type of events are damaging especially for women. They tend to be very emotional and sensitive to hurt. Dramatic events like this may shut down your heart for future potential relationships. It helps you to avoid more pain and more drama in your life.

I understand that you have enough of those sob and pesimistic stories…

Unfortunately, those events of affair create strong fear of intimacy. You are unable to connect with another human being. The only way to solve it is to address your past issue and erase it from your heart. If you are curious how to do it, I encourage you to keep reading.

Anytime you decide to start sharing your life with a new partner, you take a risk of emotional trauma. There is always a possibility him to have an affair and leave you with the broken heart. You can’t believe that he did it. This shock produces more anger, sadness, and betrayal.

You remember those negative memories and toxic emotions. They are eating your heart inside out as they stay in the subconscious mind. So long you keep sad memories, it will stay with you. It will block you from creating a healthy relationship.

You may decide to enter into a new relationship by all means. What would it happen you may ask?

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Well, your new partner will trigger your old wounds from the past. You will relive negative emotions and past, traumatic life story. It will affect your present life with this new man. It won’t make it easy but only worse and worse over time.

You may remind the hurtful story within yourself. So you will likely to withdraw from active participation in your current relationship. Emotional pain is heartbreaking and hurtful so that you want to escape as fast as it is possible. You suffered before and now you are afraid of intimacy with your new partner.

It is impossible to have a fulfilled and healthy relationship in this scenario.

Only if you take a challenge and erase the past pain from your heart, you can succeed. Old negative memories of betrayal and emotional hurt are useless to hold it. It is better to clear your heart and make a new space for something better.

Delete your past. Is it even possible to do it you may ask?

There is a releasing technique which makes this possible. It helps to address painful memories, beliefs, and negative emotions. They are all toxic and parasitic so through this modality, you can get rid of them from your mind permanently.

Those “problems” live in the subconscious mind. They can survive only through following lies which persuade a human to believe that it is good to keep it.

The biggest lie is that memories teach us something important. It helps to avoid problematic issues in the future time.

Imagine: have you ever got hit by a school bus? Many of you may answer: no. This memory doesn’t exist, you never experienced this situation in your life. But you don’t wish to ever happen to you, do you?

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What if you experienced an affair in your relationship? There are many issues you stored in your subconscious mind. This makes you feel enslaved. Then, it is good to erase it. Then, you will restart your mind and make it more space for a new, healthy and happy relationship.

My name is Iga and I help people to let go of their toxic relationships so they can take their lives back and start living a normal, healthy life. So if I have inspired you to learn more about a powerful coaching process that can help you become fully conscious and in charge of your mind and life kindly request a free introductory Skype consultation that will begin to change your life.

 

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‘Start Thinking Twice About Eating Suya Meat After Seeing This’ (Photos)

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-According to report made available to Jayreporters media, a certain  Facebook user has shared horrible pictures of how Suya meat are being prepared in an dirty and unhygienic environment.

According to him, one needs to think twice before eating the spicy skewered cow meat.

The dirty environment and poor or zero hygiene conditions in which Suya is made and handled in many places in Nigeria, has called for a great concern.

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 Meanwhile, the Minister of Health, Prof. Isaac Adewole, has warned Nigerians against the consumption of some popular delicacies like Suya is dangerous to the health.

According to the Minister, other forms of meat including Kilishi(spicy dried cow meat) and Ngwo-Ngwo, (assorted meat pepper soup) also lead to the death of many Nigerians as they cause hypertension leading cardiovascular disease in Nigeria and can result in stroke if untreated.

Many Nigerians, however, do not agree with Prof. Adewole as they see the consumption of such delicacies as a must and most times, they come quite cheap.

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Tips And Advice For a Successful Relationship.

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A good relationship doesn’t just happen, you have to work for it, and building a better relationship is not really hard.

 

A good relationship takes more than just attraction or the chemistry; it is like a puzzle that needs to be fixed together to achieve the romantic dreams of each other, building a successful takes time, patient and commitment. there are few key points to portray and also watch out for in your partner for a successful relationship. here are tips on how to have and build a successful relationship.

 

A good relationship takes more than just attraction or the chemistry; it is like a puzzle that needs to be fixed together to achieve the romantic dreams of each other, building a successful takes time, patient and commitment. there are few key points to portray and also watch out for in your partner for a successful relationship. here are tips on how to have and build a successful relationship.

 

A good relationship takes more than just attraction or the chemistry; it is like a puzzle that needs to be fixed together to achieve the romantic dreams of each other, building a successful takes time, patient and commitment. there are few key points to portray and also watch out for in your partner for a successful relationship. here are tips on how to have and build a successful relationship.

 

A good relationship takes more than just attraction or the chemistry; it is like a puzzle that needs to be fixed together to achieve the romantic dreams of each other, building a successful takes time, patient and commitment. there are few key points to portray and also watch out for in your partner for a successful relationship. here are tips on how to have and build a successful relationship.

 

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#1. Love yourself

 the first tip is as simple as it sounds, you have to love yourself for who you are, for it is from deep within yourself that love flourish to the outside and you cannot love  another person if you do not love yourself, so start with these simple task of loving and appreciating yourself.

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#2. Learn how to forgive

 There is no perfect relationship and you are always bound to offend your partner, it comes with every relationship either friendship or romantic relationship, but for a relationship to grow and stand the test of time you need to forgive each other, and move on without negative feelings.

 

#3. Communication is key

 Communication is vital in any relationship, just as water is vital to eating, for you to build a strong relationship you need to communicate intermittently with your partner, be an active listener, there are lot to know and understand by talking and listening to each other.

 

#4. Have time for sex

 Research on psychology relationship has shown that sex goes a long  way in affecting a relationship, either positively or negatively, it has also shown that sexual satisfaction in relationship solidify the intimacy and bond between partners thereby building the relationship.

 

#5. Remain faithful and honest

Trust is a major factor to successful relationship, being faithful and honest to your partner makes them believe in you regardless of whatever, be prepared to tell the truth no matter how  much it hurts, nothing kills a relationship more than lies.

 

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#6. Support each other

Supporting your partner gives them the joy and satisfaction that they have someone to count and rely on, it gives them confidence to perform better, these support may be in terms of advice, prayer or even financial.

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